Having a boyfriend who is a us Marine

Jasmine • My name is jasmine I`m a fun and happy girl
My bf is out in Iraq and it's hard for me I think about him every second of the day and night I get very worried and stressed out I drink a lot cuz it helps me relax and takes the stress away is there any other girl or wife with a bf or husband serving in the military and if so what do you girls do to stay calm and stuff?