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Should I tell him I'm not a virgin

Andrée • Mon, Nov 24

I recently met this guy and I really like him and he is very religious and wants to save himself for marriage which I'm okay with. He's had a very positive effect on my life ever since I've met him I've really thought about my life and have started going to church again and I recently made the choice to be abstenent as well. I am not a virgin but he doesn't know that...we haven't talked about sex or anything but I'm afraid if he finds out that I'm not a virgin he won't want me anymore. I really like him he is a great guy and I don't want to lose him over something like this. What should I do, should I come out and tell him, or should I wait for the subject to come up and him to ask, or should I just not say anything. Also how do I start a conversation like that with him.

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