So stressed with the process of tracking

Why is it so stressful to me? I want to get it right but I can't seem to get the whole process down. I'm constantly getting "no surges" and so I have no clue when exactly I'm ovulating. I've been checking my CM, everyday I take my temp but I'm still unsure. Someone please tell me if I'm doing it right. What I'm doing wrong(other than stressing too much, I know this aready). Thanks ladies ?