Would you let your husband get a penis enlargement?

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Personal question I know. But my husband and I are in a big debate over it. I believe our body was made the way it was for a reason. I'm happy with him stuff ( 7 inches and about 4 inches in gerth) he says he's unhappy with it and says its "small" I do not believe it is. I don't want him to do surgery but he does. Help please ladies and men.

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My hubby isn't the biggest but it's perfect to me and that's all that matters. He talked about wanting to be bigger but I was honest and told him if that's what would make him happy fine but personally I love him just the way he is and wouldn't want him to change and that I wished he could see how amazing I think he is in every way. That was the last time that topic ever came up....

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He could lose sensitivity. His mind is warped right now. It's not healthy to think that way. Just because our society is enabling us to do twisted things, does not mean it is right.
Look, if you are happy with it and he gets pleasure from it, that's all that matters, and he shouldn't change it-- especially not at the expense of his sensitivity.

It's honestly really selfish and small-minded of him to think that way. I'm not trying to be insensitive, I'm just being honest.

Right now, he thinks it's the worst thing, try to help him accept and like his size. By the way, 7 in long and 4 in girth is huge. There is such thing as too big, if he increased it, I think it would be too big!

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Show him this poll and the comments so he can look at it with a different perspective. Maybe make a new poll: what's the perfect size?

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Good lord... thats hech ehm on the bigger side of average.  No need for ur hubby to get a bigger one.. sorry I feel akward writing this. :/

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4in in girth? -.-

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I'd say it just like if you'd want a breast augmentation. You'd talk to him about it cause he's your husband, but in the end it's about what make you happy and comfortable with yourself. Although I'd be a little concerned with the safety of the procedure to in large his penis. You don't hear a lot about those surgeries unlike breast inlargement. If it something he's really serious about, make sure you do your homework.

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Thanks everyone this really helped!

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It's not about 'letting' them do anything. It's their body and they can do whatever they feel they need to do. Of course I wouldn't want someone to change to make themselves feel better, I'd be happier helping them to become comfortable in their own skin, but if it's something they feel is necessary it's not my place to say they aren't allowed.

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Why not a pump like bathmate?  Why surgery?

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Put it in perspective for him, ask him if he would be alright if you surgically changed your height. Let's say your 5'9" and you want to be 3 in taller, bc you were self-conscious of your "short" height. He would tell you you're crazy, he liked you the way you are, and would say no. And add to that, what if you changing your height made you feel sexual pleasure less! No way he would be ok with that!

It's essentially the same thing with him-- he has a DELUSION he is not big enough and he is willing to spend a ton of money to change it, to possibly lose sensitivity and negatively impact your sex life, and all this disregarding the fact that the only person who should care about his "size" is you, and you like it as it is!

Would you let your husband get a penis enlargement?

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