Am i overreacting?

Question

My dad and I are extremely close.. Given the fact I'm a daddy's girl.
A few years ago, he stopped talking to me (we used to talk all the time and I'd see him all the time) and had a girlfriend at the time and kept it from me until Christmas of 2012.
Well, he also moved to Vancouver and my dad usually tells me EVERYTHING. He lived in Oregon since 2008 .. ?
He married this woman July 25, 2014 and every time I ask if I can go see him, he tells me he has to ask his wife (Kelli).  Which I think is bullshit because before he got with her he never hesitated to let me go see him.
Every time I talk to him about something on Facebook during the days I know he has off, it isn't even my dad! Its Kelli!!
They also like to talk a lot of shit about my mom and I'm done.
Seriously, am I overreacting?
I love my dad, I do, but I'm seriously hurt. ?

Answer

No. He's behaving pretty childishly. Letting anyone come between him and his child is wrong.

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I don't think you're over reacting, at all.

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I think you need to have your dad alone meet you somewhere so you can discuss with him what your feeling. Truthfully I would feel the same but if his new wife is controlling his time with you it could be a bad sign. Call him and tell him you want to see him without his wife and go from there. He is you father and probably feels the disconnect as well. Reach out in a calm way and discuss how you feel since the communication stopped. Don't bring his wife into keep it between you and let him explain why he has been distant. Tell him you want to be a part of his life but that you would appreciate that your mother not be discussed in your presence. Try this I hope it helps.

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I don't think your over reacting but communication is key, meet with him alone and discuss these new changes its possible he's unawear of his new wife's jellousness it happens.

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I think you should meet him alone and have a talk with him. You're not over reacting. It's genuine and obvious. I'm sure you must be feeling terrible.. Hope everything gets back to normal again between you and your dad.. Take care

Am i overreacting?

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