Looks like the end of the road

After a year of trying and becomming unsuccessful I have been back to the doctors again.  I've got to go for a blood test on 22nd dec to check if i'm ovulating but got to be a week before my next period but when my next one is due is  anyone's guess so it probably won't show anything.  Jay has got to go for a sperm test.  If anything is wrong with either of us and more investigation is needed, it's the end of the road as we don't qualify for the next step as I am 40 and the cut off period is 39.  Unless we can go private which of course we can't afford