Women, we need to stop using double-standards!

I am sick of how it has become accepted in all societies I can think of for women to choose when to be equal to men and when not to! Either you are equal or you are not, please stop using double standards! You know very well what I mean! On one hand you want the same opportunities etc as the man has or pull the "i am an independent woman" when it is convenient for you and on the other hand you expect the man to make the first move or rely on him to keep you entertained and adventurous, just like a child! Please, be consistent! Most women I know do this, they put personal responsibility on the man whenever it is convenient to her and when it is convenient to her she demands to be treated as an equal with the man, being a hard core feminist! We need to understand that yes, biological differences exist due to thousands of years of evolution and gender roles and stuff but equality is a reality today if WE STICK to what we demand! Do not ask for equality if you every once in a while choose not to be! Everywhere I look I see the following things: "ooh my husband doesn't buy me flowers. Flowers make me happy!" Honey why on earth do you rely on him for your happiness? Buy those flowers yourself if you like them! "I am a woman, I cannot help how I feel at the moment, I have no control of my thoughts right now!" Yes you do, stop it, stop showing that you are a helpless little child! Take control over how your life should look and take personal responsibility! Please before we ruin another generation of females who need to know what it really means to be a woman, not that being woman means you change the definition of what a woman is depending on how you feel at the time being!