My story....

I'm really nervous to put this into writing but I think it will help me move forward.  This was my 3rd pregnacy, first time I have had morning sickness. Everything seemed to be going great. Had an appointment at 11 weeks and heartbeat was strong and I was starting to feel better. Set my next appointment farther out than normal because of thanksgiving and the hope of knowing what the gender would be. I was 16 weeks 5 days, they started the ultrasound and there was the baby.  My doctor was talkative like normal than became quiet. I noticed no movement and no flicker where the heart should be. He than said quietly I think we have a problem. The next part was a blur, I'm so happy my husband was there to hold me up and get me to the car. The baby had stopped growing around 13 weeks. Now I have had my d&c and I'm trying to get my feet under me. Trying to make sense of it all and where to go from here.