I don't know if it bugs everyone else as much as it bugs me to be asked "when are you going to start having kids?" "what are you guys going to get pregnant?" "why don't you have kids yet?". I'm so sick of getting asked these questions. I hate having to explain why. It also makes me feel awful when I get asked in front of my mother in law because even though she understands why we haven't had kids yet, I know she really, really wants grandkids soon. ?