How do I get my bf do to oral sex?

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I love giving my boyfriend oral and always do it before sex and on other random occasions. But unless he's almost black out drunk he absolutely refuses to go down on me. I can't seem to figure out why and he won't tell me. He just says he doesn't like it. It's not fair that I go out of my way to pleasure him and he won't do the same for me. We've been dating two years and I'm adamant about my health/cleaning. Any advice?

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My SO was that way. So I stopped giving him head. When he realized I wasn't going to be the only one doing so he changed. However, we did talk about why he never did it for me. After talking with him about it I found out he didn't do it because his ex told him he wasn't any good so he was worried. Come to find out she's a f*#$@ing goober and was wrong. ? it's not an issue anymore. My advice..talk to him first and get to the root of it.

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I love going down on my girlfriend! What's his issue? Put some whip cream on it! Lol

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No bjs for him then.

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Mine will if he "feels like it"...but he never does. He says he loves to but I've seen no evidence of this. That's why I quit going down on him. He's having a hard time coping. Lol

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Tell him it's a 2 way street, if he wants it he has to return the favor.

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Mine always felt bad if he didn't do well, perhaps he feels like he's bad at it? Or in my experience, if I got him off first, he would be too tired to return a favor.

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Stop giving oral to him. Only do 69 so you're both participating.

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First, make sure you're clean down there. Then let him know that you like it. Try some flavored oils (the bedroom kind) and if he still doesn't like it then you have to let it go. Not everyone likes doing that.

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My husband warmed up to the idea without me telling him and now he wants to do every time he enjoys it it could be his confidence

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My boyfriend didn't like to give me oral because he had never done it before. I just basically talked to him and told him it was unfair that he gets oral and I don't. I told him it would be very pleasurable for the BOTH of us if he gave it to me. He tried it on me and he ended loving it. He saw how much pleasure it gave me. : )

How do I get my bf do to oral sex?

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