Hey Happy New Year! aunt Flo is here! (intro-long)

First time posting, ttc 4 years. Dh & I are 38, trying for #1, married 5 years. Actually started to get excited as I was 3 days late, my cycles usually run 24-25 days. We've decided that it's time to get help. I'm currently taking vitex, maca, b complex, prenatal, vitamin d3, coq10, magnesium citrate, evening primrose oil, omega 3-6-9, alpha lipoic acid. My work switched insurance companies & from what it looks like, they will help with ivf costs. I went ahead and made the maximum contribution for fsa. My current health condition are migraine, especially triggered by menstrual, or if I get no sleep, stress etc. & due to depression about not getting pregnant, I now weigh 185 lbs. I gained 50 lbs in two years. My goals are to keep the path of eating right, exercise, not drink any soda (love) & drink water (hate) instead & of course a baby :)