Can you forgive someone who cheat on you? if so, how would you and do you think yall should talk it out? Or leave it alone?

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I was cheated on and the only way I found out because I went through his phone.  I think if I didn't go through his phone I still wouldn't know. He say he's not doing it anymore, abs in my heart I believe him but....  who knows?

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No. I wouldn't. Cheating shows a lack of love and respect. There is no relationship without those

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Hell no! You can always do better than a dishonest loser. Cut him off and let his dirty little secret side piece deal with his cheating ass.

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Nope. Obviously if you weren't enough for them then you'll neve be in the future and you're only hurting yourself by sticking around. I love my husband with my everything but if he cheated on me I wouldn't be able to even look at him much less love him again. How can you love someone who wants to hurt you?

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I believe the same. ..once a cheater always a cheater

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You deserve someone who wants to be with you and only you. Once a guy cheats and you forgive him, he WILL do it again. Because he now has the ability to have more than one woman and be forgiven.

You need to dump his ass. It'll hopefully hopefully teach him a lesson, and will be better for both of you in the long run.

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okay so my thoughts are a little different. sort of. I have been the cheater. and honestly, if you can get away with it once, you lose the fear of getting caught. however, I've never been caught. but at the same time, I cheated on my ex, and I could never ever imagine cheating on the man I'm with now. so I don't exactly believe in "once a cheater always a cheater" but I do believe that your relationship will be tainted and there was probably something wrong with it for him to do it. the decision is ultimately up to you.

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NO!
They say once a cheater always a cheater, and a part of that is true. If a guy cheats on you, he will cheat on you again, or will strongly consider it. A guy cheats because he is looking for something else, maybe a quality you don't possess. 
I would leave, he obviously doesnt respect you or love you enough to have you be his one and only

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Two wrongs make it right in my book! I cheated back and felt redeemed

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A lot of people will tell u no don't give him a second chance but I think it depends on the man. I was cheated on by my fiance a year and a half ago and now we r happier than ever. I know this doesn't happen for very many people and some probably think I am naive. Anyway it was texting and they never had sex but either way it hurts horribly. The point is the man has to be genuinely remorseful and be there for u and talk about it as much as u need u to. My fiance also chose a stalker when he broke it off she wouldn't leave him alone but he was always open and showed me when she texted him so that I wouldn't find it an think they were still talking. The biggest thing u have to do is u both have to understand what is wrong in ur relationship that it happened to begin with and fix it if u can't do that then it will happen again. Hope this helped and again there are only a few rare men who make a mistake an actually learn from it most r repeat offenders just go w your gut its usually right

Can you forgive someone who cheat on you? if so, how would you and do you think yall should talk it out? Or leave it alone?

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