In need of someone to talk to. Having a hard time.

My boyfriend of 2 years & I had been arguing for a few days about something his friend said to me. Basically, his friend told me that my boyfriend doesn't respect me. When I confronted my boyfriend with this, he told me that I'm lying. So, I asked his friend in front of him to repeat what he said to me. His friend decided to play stupid & pretend he never said anything. My boyfriend called me a liar. The next day, my boyfriend asked me to meet up with him & grab a drink so we can talk about what happened. I agreed to meet up with him. It took me about 45 minutes to get to his place. 5 minutes before I got there, he called me to ask me if I could talk to his friend alone & I insisted that I don't want to talk to his friend because he lied. My boyfriend then told me to forget it then & just go home. At this point, I'm furious. So I rang his doorbell demanding that he come out & talk to me. He never came down until 10 minutes later, where he had a garbage bag full of my stuff. I asked him why he was doing this & he kept calling me a liar. He then threw the garbage bag with all my stuff in it on the ground & slammed the door in my face. I couldn't help myself so I just broke down in the street & cried hysterically. I was so overwhelmed & humiliated that I couldn't hold it back. The police showed up & he came back downstairs. the police asked him if he wanted me there & he told them "no". The police demanded that I leave or they'd arrest me for trespassing. I had no choice but to walk away with this huge garbage bag. My boyfriend then comes up to me & takes the bag from me & says, "ok. I'll leave the bag at my place. We can go somewhere and have a drink and talk." I couldn't even look at him. I kept the bag in his hands & told him to just throw everything away & that I'm not having a drink with him. He replied, "ok. Whatever." I got back on a cab & went home. That was 2 days ago & I feel completely miserable. I don't know what to do to ease the pain. It makes me angry because I don't think he even feels bad for what he did to me.