How often do you have sex?

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Happy Valentines Day!

Me and my boyfriend have been having sex a lot lately (almost every day).
I don't know if it's because we've been doing it so often or if it's my pill, but my libido is low and I honestly don't feel in the mood at all. Like i can do without it... Idk why. 
I love my boyfriend and ik it's not cause of him. 
Has this happened to you before?

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Where is the everyday option?  That includes before we were married and ttc. I know I am not alone,  many women have higher than normal libido.

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Mine is higher than normal but by DH is low :(

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Any kind of birth control will make you lose almost all of your sex drive. Happened to me on the pill and the ring. Bc sucks!!

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Libido changes naturally for most women. Sometimes my sex drive is through the roof, other times I'm like "can I please just watch Friends and eat ice cream?" And I just don't feel the need for it. It's totally normal. Just remember that it's important to have sex even if you're not super excited about it sometimes because your partner has needs too. If you were really wanting sex and they just shrugged you off repeatedly, it would probably frustrate you and hurt your feelings, so keep in mind that they may react that way as well. That being said, you also don't have to just have sex all the time even if you don't want to. So just relax! Have sex when you want, have it even if you're kind of like "eg I guess I could", and sometimes don't have it! It's all good.

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My fiance and I usually have sex at least 3 times a week. I would say that he and I both have a high libido and we are both straight across the board. But every once in a great while I will not be in the mood in the SLIGHTEST for a good week or two. Maybe that's just how we are made? Maybe our bodies take a break every now and again. :)

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My sex drive dropped after having a baby and getting on nexplanon. But, his drive has always been low for a guy, so it works out. We normally do it 1-2 times a week, which I think is healthy. We've been married almost 2 years. Even if I don't really feel like it, I still do it when he wants to. After he starts, I get into it. Lol

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When I had my contraceptive implant in my arm I wasn't interested at all! Literally once a week and even then I didn't enjoy it! I've had my impant out for over a year and half and TTC ever since and it's almost every day if not every other day. It's personal preference but I think contraceptives HUGELY effect libido x

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It's normal to not be in the mood. Your libido may be low,  but if this is where you are comfortable: don't have sex just to please him. That will get old fast. If you are worried it is too low,  go see you gynecologist. You're not weird for having a different sex drive.

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