back and forth lover

Ladies, do NOT let a man who has left you come back into your life, EVER. I promise the same outcome. Whether he cheated, he just needed "space" (which btw means he's humping whoever will give him the time of day), or if he's just an asshole who likes to see how far he can push you. I promise you no good will come if you let him back into your life. It'll be all smiles and roses for about a week and then back to it. Men don't change. Don't give them the opportunity to hurt you and make you cry twice. You go through the stages of crying to anger and back to crying which is a huge part of moving on. That's the hard part, the first month is the hardest so why hit reset just because he says sweet things? Didn't he say sweet things when you first got together? Yes. And guess what happened. Heartbreak. Seriously ladies, don't give second chances. The person you're meant to be with won't need a second chance. Cry, eat a container of frosting and move on! Trust me, you'll be much better off.