He watched porn while I go down on him?

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My so and I have been dating for 7 months and I thought our sex life was ok but now he only gets a boner if he watches porn I feel so unsexy. My girls friends are telling me that's weird and I should not have to put up with all the porn? Does anyone else do this or have done that?

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That's not a good sex life in my opinion. It would tell me that I'm not enough to get him hard or horny..very insulting.

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No no no if your not into it don't do it!! You should be the one in control and never feel like you have to do it to please him.

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if my S/O ever whipped porn out in the middle of me giving him anything it would be a wrap. it's completely discouraging to think he would need an outside source to finish.

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I love giving my man a bj while he watches porn - it gets me in the mood too!

But if the only way he can get hard is if he watches porn, then that's a problem. Try having him take a hiatus from it for a month and see if anything changes. Could be that his mind is just wrapped around it too much.

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No way.. That's very disrespectful to you!

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I understand you're feeling, but I have done this twice to get him to sleep. When my husband's stressed he won't sleep, jacking him off relaxes him just enough to do so. So in the middle of the night, I wasn't wanting it to take forever. The porn helped.

As for just doing it as usual sexual activity, I wouldn't let him do it. He's basically just using you to lazily masterbate.

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He might be addicted to porn... he could seek help.

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If I was there doing all the work and the only thing he could thing about was whipping out some porn while I got busy I would be insulted! It's different if I'm not there to pleasure him and he just absolutely has to watch porn to get off while he masturbates (because for some reason he does), but if he started watching it with me trying to get intimate with him I would be furious! If it makes you uncomfortable talk to him and let him know he needs to stop ask him what you can do to make it more interesting for him maybe he just wants to try something new and is afraid to ask? Good luck! Remember only do what makes you comfortable.

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Well it sjouldnt be the ONLY way he gets a erection. But ive never seen a preoblem with porn

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I sometimes have to watch porn to get me going. Don't take it personally. Sometimes it makes it even hotter.

He watched porn while I go down on him?

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