Boyfriend thinks I'm a Little?

Question

A bit of background, we have been in a vanilla relationship for 2 years, but i know he is a Dom, and he told me he was at the very start. He agreed to be in a vanilla relationship with me and build up a foundation (trust, communication, etc) before trying to introduce me to any kink. He and I engage in a bit of the sexual aspects of his kink. And, I HAVE considered being a Sub but don't really feel ready just yet.

Recently my boyfriend has made jokes about me being a Little on the inside. I love watching kids shows and. Cute frilly dresses occasionally. I like to describe myself as "cute" and honestly sometimes i do feel more little girl than grown woman. But in reality, I don't really think I am a Sub at all. I am fiercely independent, and I cannot stand the idea of doing as I am told just to please someone. Even him. He is very caring and hasn't tried asking me to do anything I don't want to do. I don't think I could handle that lack of freedom. Can anyone give me a bit of insight on the whole Little lifestyle? I once heard that if you consider being a sub, and look into it, then you are one. What do you think?

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Being a little, technically is normally considered a type of Sub.
Littles, are not completely controlled by the *Daddy Dom*, more or less they are cared for and guided by the DD. Almost like a caregiver and receiver relationship.
I highly suggest checking out fetlife.com and searching the dd/lg(Daddy Dom/Little Girl) style relationship style on google, there are some really good tumblr blogs with information as well.

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Littles don't always have to be subs.  And subs don't have to give up their independence.  Do some deeper research into the community.  I am submissive to my partner but very independent and dominant in every other way.  I just trust him enough to submit. Also there are many types of Doms,  daddy doms for instance are caretakers,  sadist doms want to inflict pain.  As for being little that is something you need to decide for yourself, but nothing wrong with trying it out.  You don't have to regress to a diaper wearing age of anything,  you can be 5yrs at heart and just enjoy acting and being a little girl.  And what toddler isn't independent and ornery that can be part of your persona.  Kink is what you make it.  Do some research and explore it.

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The "little" and "bottom" categories don't just mean baby girl or sub. You're probably a brat. I know I am.

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Its not about bending to your Dom's will when youre a sub. A Dom's true job is to provide you pleasure, release, whatever you need. They serve you by helping you serve them. 
And you never ever do anything you dont want to do. The things you never want to do, you'll tell him, and he wont. And things that youve agreed to do, but dont feel like it right now, you just tell him; thats what safe words are for. 
As for whether you are a sub or not, youll have to figure that out on your own, but its not about taking orders you arent fond of. 
Good luck :) hope this helps a bit.

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Being in a daddy/little girl relationship doesn't necessarily mean you have a lack of freedom, it all depends on how you want your relationship to work. I identify as a little but only my daddy really brings out my little side, to other people I'm independent and not very little at all. You can always just engage in ddlg activity in the bedroom but if you don't like being a sub at all then never mind aha I guess you just have little characteristics

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You could be a little brat :) I am a little switch and brat - my age is around 17 I worked out as I'm into cartoons etc but my mind doesn't like the idea of being any littler ... Could be just a thought thing and I could be a little little but at the mo I'm just being me - Young at heart :)

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I think everyone's personal relationship is different. It really just depends on what you guys end up agreeing upon what is acceptable and what isn't. I act like a little but I am a very independant person and my Boyfriend and I have a kind-of agreement about what's acceptable and what isn't. They don't have to have complete control over you if you don't want them to. :)

Boyfriend thinks I'm a Little?

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