Are getting lap dances at a strip club considered cheating?

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My husband went to a strip club a couple of times with his buddy while on deployment. I didn't have an issue with that but what about actually getting a private lap dance? What do you consider that?

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I don't consider it cheating but why would he need or want lap dances from other women.

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No....but if this bothers a wife it should not happen.

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I put yes. But I don't think it's cheating unless he was filling her up or rubbing on her.

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It's really up to you what you consider cheating. A lot if people have different lines they don't want their partner to cross.

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People are so ridiculous about strip clubs lol. Guys, those girls are usually pretty gross. I have 100% trust I my husband so I have no worries about these things. Hell, I would buy him a laps dance. I go to the strip club with my friends every few weeks because we know a lot of the people who work there. My husband has never gone or even wanted to go. Chill on the strip club questions. If you trust your husband what's the problem?

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My husband and I have gone to strip clubs together a lot. I was a stripper for a short time as well. I don't consider it cheating, but another woman might, and she'd be entitled to feel that way.

If he's hiding going to strip clubs, I'd say it's cheating. If you've expressed you're not OK with it and he does it anyway, I'd say it's cheating (Spiteful at least.) I'm all about open, honest communication and consent between partners.

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It's like porn, it can be fine n healthy but it's up to to know/feel if there's something wrong with it. I don't care if my husband goes for occasions, bachelor party's or something, but if he started or did go to strip clubs like habitually or for no real good reason, then I'd say something.

Are getting lap dances at a strip club considered cheating?

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