What do I do?

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I'm 20 years old and my husband  is 21 when have been together since high school I was 16 he was 16 well he's pakistani  and I'm mexican  we have a daughter  and I am so tired of the live I am living he starts a fight even if u go to my mom's house I can't go out the house or he gets mad and accuses me of cheating I can't have friends he cursed them  out the only one friend j have he dosent let me go out with he comes and goes as he pleases he dosent let me see his phone he is so mean he says if u cheat he's gonna kill me he almost did shoot me last time I cheated Idk what to do ?

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leave! not being funny but a REAL man would never treat you like that

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Why would u stay with a man that threatening to kill you? And u say u cheated so why don't u just leave his physco ass. I understand u have a child but that's not safe for u or the kid.

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Find a safe place to go and take your daughter with you. File for a divorce and custody of your little girl. That is not a safe place for you or your daughter to be in.... If you feel unsafe leaving you can have the police escort you out and file a restraining order. I'm so sorry that this is happening to you guys. Lots of prayers heading your way!

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That is NOT healthy. He sounds mentally abusive and he also seems to be entering physical abuse. Even if u guys have been together since high school, NO ONE should treat u so poorly like that! It isn't right! If he truly loved u, I believe he would actually act like it. Relationships are built off of trust and love and should make both partners happy. He needs to either change or you need to leave. This is a very serious situation. All of my love I send to u to make the best decision for u and your daughter ❤️

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If he is threatening your life, you need to get out NOW. Find a relative or friend who can house you safely, take your child and leave. If you don't have anyone, Google women's shelters in your area. Someone who loves you should never ever threaten you like that.

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You need to get a plan going to leave him, and to make sure you and your child are safe. That is abuse..

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Girl you seriously need to seek God and ask Him for help because this is not normal. He's isolating you from everyone and even our family. I would leave his butt. Come up with a plan to make sure your safe and financially stable, document everything that he does, I mean down to the T with details and than leave. If you seen JLos movie where she left her abusive husband, I mean don't make up some drastic plan like that but save money, plan, and leave. You don't know what would happen if you did stick around and he just got worse. Girl you deserve better than that!

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Don't cheat?

Get a Devorce.

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