With my first, I had a homecoming since she came before her baby shower. I didn't have a tons of people but more like just family coming over and had a buffet style dinner. This is my third pregnancy, my second i miscarried and I was wondering if I should have a baby shower. I don't have any friends, my family don't speak to me but I do have cousins and DH family. I want to have a gender reveal but not sure if I should make it into a gender reveal baby shower since it'll be maybe 10 people.