Need to rant 😡

I can't help but feel jealous and annoyed. I know so many people that have babies and don't take care of them at all physically and finically. So many people just get pregnant so freakish easily and half don't even know who the dad is.. 
While my husband and I have been together for a couple years we are finically set we have a house and we both want a kid and it's impossible for us to have a baby. We have been trying since October and I know that isn't a long time compared to most people on here. 
But so many people I know personally have one night stands and bam they are pregnant!  And 20 and living at home with there parents and there parents are supporting them and the child and they aren't even attempting to get a job or move out. 
I'm just frustrated and sad