My heart is broken and I am trying not to be bitter. We're devestated but we are also trying to grow stronger as a couple. We had our sweet girl nearly two weeks ago. She had passed at 16 weeks and I didn't know until 20. It was an infection that happens to those "2%" of people. You never expect it to happen to you though. The likely of it happening again is thin. But the infection she had carried a huge risk of cerebral palsy at birth which is painful. Or I would have bled out in child birth.... So I'm not sure how to take that news.