18 TTC. S/O 28

My S/o wants us to go to the doctor, but I'm scared the doctor might judge me. Idk why I'm thinking like this. We've been ttc for almost a year now ... And nothing has happened so far. He wants us to get check to see if something is wrong.. but I feel like the doctor is gonna look at us weird. We can take care of a baby! If we couldn't we wouldn't be trying. Should I be feeling this way? Am I being dramatic?