Am I just paranoid or should I be concerned?

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My husband and I have been together for 11 years and married 4 years. He is a tow truck driver and works crazy hours(every other week 6 am to 2 pm, the other weeks 2 pm to 10 pm), but I am very sexually active. We have sex maybe once a week and I'm lucky if I get it more! I try dressing up, putting slutty make up on, sexy heels, etc. He is only 32 and I'm 28! He used to be a huge slut and says that is why he doesn't need it as often anymore! I feel like he isn't attracted to me anymore but he says he loves me and thinks I'm sexy!

Am I just paranoid or should I be worried?

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At 32, he hit his sexual peak years ago. As a woman at 28, you probably haven't even hit your peak yet. He's winding down while you are winding up. I wouldn't be worried, it's natural.

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My husband and I dealt with this for a while. We've been together 7 years, married almost 3, no kids. He is a professional athlete, so he travels the country every week, and when he's gone he's tired, and still focused on his job. I'd tried everything. It just got to a point where he thought I knew how he thought u was sexy and all, but I finally had to have a fight with him about it and vent how I felt! I let out all my pain about how I had people constantly tell me how sexy I am, but never her it from the one person who I wanted to. He's been makin a point since to flirt with me and come up to me and give me a random, hot kiss. At first it was weird cause I knew he was forcing it, but now he's gotten into it so much, he's turned on more, and we are closer than ever! It's awkward and it hurts, but sometimes they don't understand and need help with what we need emotionally.

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It could also be the stress, if he's working long hours and is in a stressful environment at work, he might not be interested in sex. Not because if anything you did, but his mind might be elsewhere.

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My fiancé is 28 I'm 22 and his sex drive isn't what it once was it happens

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What is slutty makeup...?

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Relationship hit tough patches! I wouldn't be paranoid unless he is acting shady as well. Tell him that your needs are still the same or even stronger and you want him to take care of them.

Am I just paranoid or should I be concerned?

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