So I miscarried my baby last week at 5 weeks 4 days. And I was devastated. And my mom was with me during it. And my SO and I want to try again and really try this time since last time was a oops but we still were super excited. But my mom wants me to go back on birth control or get an IUD but me and my SO really wanna try again. And we will. But I was just wondering if that makes us selfish ? I don't think it does. Any opinions?