Hello friends, I am in desperate need of MATURE advice. My boyfriend and I lost a child to a miscarriage in January. I was only eight weeks along but I was seriously ill. I just found out that I am pregnant again despite using birth control. I'm also not near as sick and in pain as I was the first time. When I found out I was pregnant again I was extremely happy, I feel as though I have a second chance. My boyfriend though feels it's way too soon and says he has not recovered from losing the first child and feels very strongly I should get a abortion.