Thoughts please!
This might be long so thanks if you stick out for reading it...
Let me begin by saying that I really have NO PROBLEM with porn. It has never bothered me. I always seen it as if we were honest about it and it wasn't a hidden thing then it isn't a big deal. Even watching it and not directly coming out to your partner saying "hey I watched porn today" isn't really necessary but if asked I don't see the point in lying about it.
I asked my husband if he watched it the other day that we were apart and he told me no but when I looked on his phone I seen he did.... Like I said no big deal but idk why he felt he had to lie about it. Well, what bothers me is what he searched for... He looked for three sums and military women. He has talked to me about three sums for a long time now and I've told him I don't want to do it because I couldn't handle watching him with someone else especially after he cheated on me. The military girl search really rubbed me the wrong way because it's been a year since he cheated on me with a military girl. (They were on deployment and I still have to deal with them working together)
Maybe it's just my hormones (I'm pregnant) and the fact that a year has past has gotten me thinking about that horrible time in our lifes. My husband has been amazing with me and he hasn't given me any reason to doubt him. We have even went to counseling after this all happen and the counselor said he didn't even need to see us anymore after 3 sessions because it sounded like we were doing great on healing from all of this ourselves. I just hate when I get in these depressed moods when it comes to thinking about what happen. I think once we move at the end of the year and I know that don't have to see each other every day my healing process will go a lot faster. My question is how would you feel? Am I just being crazy? Anyone that has been through something similar, what did you do to move forward? Or is it just my hormones and I'm being a boob? Haha What about a three sum... Would you do it just to satisfy him or would you stick to your ground?
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