Count your kicks

Hopefully writting this will help even one other person . I was 35 + 4 days prego with my first . My blood pressure was getting high at 31 weeks . All blood and urine cAme back fine . Was hospitalize 2x bc of pressure . Doctors didn't want to indouce me until 37 weeks unless my urine had protein in it . I was Montior 3 times a week at the. Dr office to make sure everything was ok . I wasn't feeling my baby girl move that much . I was told the bigger you get the movement feels different . I didn't know this was my first pregrancy . I called the dr on a Sunday , the dr on call told me to drink a cold glass of water and see if you feel anything . Which I did and I felt movement . I thought it wAs just being nervous . That tues I went in for my normal monitoring and my baby girl had no heartbeat . She was gone . I ts hard not to blame someone . No one every told me to count the kicks. . It's not normal for the movement to feel different . I talk to others who are prego and there dr say that the movement feels different the bigger you are. Please if the movement doesn't seem right , go to the hospital . I had to delivery her vaginal . The cord was around her neck . I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy . If this helps others then I know my baby girl is watching over others .