Posted about MIL..

I wrote a post a whole ago about how MIL was favoring Eldest over My Miss1, always giving her extra attention, she has a special spot to sit, special cups, special chair at the table, toys books blankets.. And my Miss1 doesn't seem to get as much attention from MIL when we are over there - last time i was left to play with miss1 for the whole time we were there and she paid no attention..-

ANYWAY! I talked to SO, Then we both talked to MIL, And she flipped it.. She said we were ganging up and attacking her. And so what if she has favorites because its her family and eldest is first born and then brought up how she never sees Miss1 anyway to be able to spoil her, that's when I said she never offered, or asked to see her, so SO and Miss1 only see her when they do visits..

Now I'm the bad guy? I don't understand how this happened tbh. I thought talking to her about wanting her to spend more time with Miss1 would somehow make her realize how bad we want all grandparents around, how special we think Miss1 s relationship is with MIL..

I feel so defeated.. I don't know what to do now..