Boyfriend

Hi I need some advice I've Ben with boyfriend for awhile now and things aren't really good between me and him we fight all the time bout his best friend cause his best friend treats me awful and tells what to do and my boyfriend has started doin the same stuff to me telling me he's the boss I can't spend my money on what I want to spend it on and tht I should what he says and he makes me cry a lot more than any guy I've dated and he's already told me tht his best friend is family and wasn't goin to give him up ....I'm really confused on what to do I do love him but I'm nt sure if I want to take orders from two men all my life I really need help is there someone out there I can talk to