Anyone else wanting a child & husband is dead set on "No"?

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I am 32 nearly 33. My husband & I have two boys together. I am longing to have not only another child, but hoping for a girl. A couple months back he agreed to have another. Today the story has changed to "No way!" I am absolutely heartbroken. I cry about it all the time. I removed my nexaplonon because I thought he was serious. This only made him angry & he started watching porn instead of touching me. A couple times we had sex for maybe five minutes & I keep hoping there was pre come that implanted into me. But now I am full blown on my period & I have been tracking my body's every move. 
I feel this is it. My final shot. I am a great mother & it's what I have been born to do.
Also it's my life too. One shot. We didn't plan either of our boys. But now they are the apple of his eye. 
My one last shot is to go back to BC & see if the tiny window after its in if I finally get what I want. I don't believe it will destroy our marriage. I know it will definitely destroy me.

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Me! I've been married for 11 years this June and I desperately want a child but my husband goes back and fourth on wanting one or not. He was in a terrible accident 2 years ago and lost half his vision in both his eyes, his right arm and hand don't function like they use to and he had total knee replacement surgery so he limps and can't control his nerves so I understand his reasoning it just hurts because I know he would be an amazing father.

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It happened to me honestly, i was sad. I had said fine since there wasnt a chance of convincing him. I started birthcontrol (sprintec) for a month and it made me sick. So my ob switched me to LoLesterin and never told him about the switch and got pregnant within that window of the switch

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I wanted baby number three for a long time and my husband didn't. I resented him so much for standing in the way of what I so desperately wanted to the point where I was ready to divorce him. I ended up staying, I got over my anger and lo and behold, I got a surprise BFP. He is thrilled now and we are due to have our first son in July. Just hang in there. You never know what life might bring you.

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May I be real? My opinion is you two should work on supporting one another and working on communication before another child is involved. It sounds like there's issues that aren't resolved leaving the answer as of yet "no to more kids". I'm sure you'd be great parents again.

Also, ttc a girl... Are you prepared if it ends up being a boy instead?  Children can't fill in voids in a marriage, as you probably already know. Go the hard work route: work on any issues. Then you two can come to a compromise about children later. I think both deciding on yes for a kid is the ideal way. It would only be fair to your kids. Good luck.

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Thank you! I'm so glad I'm not alone.

Anyone else wanting a child & husband is dead set on "No"?

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