Okay well the whole thing with the Duggara has made me wonder if I should speak up about what my uncle did to me when I was younger. I'm 20 y/o and this happened when I was about 6-8. I don't want to go into much detail but basically he would touch me, kiss me and try to make me go down on him. He was about 14-15 at the time. I don't know if my parents know because they're just murky memories I have. Like they've always been at the back of my mind hidden away. I do remember my dad asking me once if anything had happened and me crying and saying no. The thing is, I don't hate my uncle. I don't feel disgust towards him. We barely talk. I don't feel like he's screwed up my life. The only outcome was I started masturbating at a young age. I'd feel bad for messing up my dad's relationship with his brother and making thing awkward for the family. Besides, I don't even know how to ask my parents. "Hey, did you know my uncle used to molest me?" It sounds harsh, although considering what he did it isn't going to exactly sound easygoing. So yeah, what do you ladies think I should do? Or what would you do if you were in my shoes? I just mainly want to clear things up and know what happened. (If my parents said or did anything)
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