Do you have insecure moments?

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Sometimes I look at my SO and see his exes wonder, why the heck are you with me? I'm not a bad catch, I'm no where near bad looking, and clearly I have all the confidence in the world on my own, but sometimes find myself questioning....

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I think its natural to feel that way sometimes.

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I certainly do. Back when I was deciding what kind of woman I wanted to mould myself in to, I deliberately decided not to rid myself of all insecurities. I find being slightly "flawed" in that regard makes me even more perfect. It makes me seem normal. I love it :)

Don't look at my fat fingers D:<

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There is a reason they're his ex.

I don't know who my husbands exes are or what they look like. All I know is why they are his exes.

I don't care if they're a 10 and I'm a 5 looks wise. They clearly didn't know how to keep a good man, plus they're all pretty shitty humans. (Cheaters/liars etc)

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Yeah I do it all the time look how great she looks big boobs and everything and me well not so much
Ex
And this is me
I really have low self esteem and I think that's why I always look at others better than i am

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No not compared to any of his exes looks lol they are ALL ugly

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Yep I have many of them. My boyfriend goes to college away from home, I HATE that there's always girls hanging out at his apartment. Technically they're there visiting his roommates, but they're all friends. There's one girl in particular that they all talk about & I can't seem to understand what is so great about her. Sometimes I think it's because she's a huge tease, she puts herself out there, but is in a "committed" relationship & it's like a game to all of them to see who will sleep with her first. I hate that she sends snapchats to my boyfriend & that he gets all excited when she does 😑 I just want to feel like his number one, but sometimes I don't feel like I am, especially when he's away at school.

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I do, but for me it's comforting to remember that he's chosen me and chooses to spend time with me etc -- when if he wanted, he could easily date someone else.

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I know I'm not butt ugly. But I also know I'm not model perfect. I strive to be a beautiful person on the inside where it counts. but I'm constantly wondering why my hubby is with me. I was his first, so sometimes I feel like that's the reason. I feel like even though I try to be a good person in the inside my personality flaws are still out there, I can't help but to feel self conscious not only in the bedroom but everywhere. Every time some one is looking at me I'm thinking there's something wrong with me. I see all these other beautiful women and wish I could be as pretty as them and wonder why my hubby isn't chasing after them. It doesn't help that normally he likes blondes! So yes, to answer your question, I have insecure moments. I think almost everyone does.

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I do it too, but as it was said above, his actions mean every single thing!!!

Look because your human but don't touch is my unspoken rule...  But it's funny because now mine is doing the same so we keep going back and forth which sucks but at the same it makes me feel a little better, again, probably not the greatest thought, but we are in love and that's all that matters

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Never about why is he with me, sometimes about compatibility, he's such an extrovert /social butterfly/networker, I'm not. But they say opposites attract....

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