My husband agreed to having another child. I removed my BC & now he wants me to get it put back. I am devastated. What would you do?

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We argue about it all the time. When the subject comes up he just yells at me. I can't get any further because of the barrier he puts up. I am supposed to go tomorrow to get an IUD. I have had my BC out for over a month. We had sex twice both times for only a moment. I could possibly be preform from the pre. But I don't want to hold my breath. I even have it in writing. His idea.

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1) There's no need for multiple posts.

2) Do not trick him into it.

3) If he isn't mature enough to have a conversation about it, do you honestly want to have kids with him right now? Probably not the smartest idea.

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If you cant talk to him then drop him. You cant have a relationship without communication or trust and youll definitely lose both if you go the petty route and trick him. Talk to him, find out what made him change his mind and see if yall can agree on waiting.

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The fact that you even added "trick him into it" tells me you probably deserve to be yelled at.

Sickening.

Either tell him to make uo his damn mind or get over it.

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Well pretty much anything but tricking him into it. Either way it's definitely a conversation to have in person and not over text message. If he doesn't want any more kids you have to respect that

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The answers aren't going to change no matter how many times you post it.

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So my phone clicked trick him into it.... Do NOT truck him into it.

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Is that on Facebook?

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Whoever voted trick him into having a child is a monster.

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If he doesn't want a kid Def get back on bc asap. You'll end up alone and he will not want anything to do with you. Kids don't bring bad relationships closer and make them better

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My cousin got 'tricked' into having a baby, then she told him they had to get married (and he's old fashioned) so they did. He told her it wasn't working out and he was miserable and bam, she got pregnant again. He's trying to do the right thing but he's just a shell of who he was. I hate seeing him like that! And EVERYONE in my family hates the damned woman. He obviously loves his kids but he can't stand her and he won't leave. Easily ruined his life.

My husband agreed to having another child. I removed my BC & now he wants me to get it put back. I am devastated. What would you do?

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