Military spouse?

Almost 6yt TTC with my husband who's 16 1/2 years in the Navy. He's gone for deployment often and it makes things difficult. Since it is part of our life we just go with he flow. This year we started to look to infertility treatment. Has anyone gone alone to appointments. I feel like it's sily to go alone but in the lifwe live its a big part of being apart. Do you think I will be looked at confusingly or judged by attending appointments alone?