Are you a working mother?

Are you a working mother? Does your husband stay home at work? Well then I have a question. We're you ever accused of cheating on your husband by your husband? Did he become insecure? What do I do about our fight they have gotten out of control where all I want do is beat the living crap out of him. Or at least he let's me. Then he he hits me back and doesn't leave a mark and he is always instigated the argument he snoops thru my phone and is always trying to.find something. I have never cheated on him physically I've thought about it but never acted on it. I'm seriously stuck. Help anyone. Advice?