Taking a fertility test in a minute..what is he thinking??!!

Question

So we're about to take a home fertility test. My man said that if it says he's unable to have children then he isn't going to go to a doctor so that we can ttc. Before, he said i need to wait 5 years before he's ready and now this? What do yall think? I love this man but i want a family. I'm beginning to think he doesn't want children..what do yall think??

Answer

Sounds like he is not ready.  But maybe you need to go to counseling with him to tak it all out and figure out what he is feeling

Answer

It sounds like he's scared. How long have you been together?  In my personal opinion (please don't be offended by any of this) if that was the case with me and my husband I would have to reevaluate and discuss with him what he wanted for OUR future. You BOTH need to be happy. If one of you isn't, then the relationship won't work in the long run.
To be happy in the relationship you both need to be honest about what you want and be able to compromise, if that's not possible then I think you need to sit down and discuss what the next move is.... I think it's harder for men (though I can't give you the reason why)

I hope it all works out for you both, good luck! Xx

Taking a fertility test in a minute..what is he thinking??!!

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