Feeling for your uterus?

This will sound silly but it has me bothered and Google isn't helping lol
Is it safe to feel for/try to palpate your uterus? I'm 13+2 today. I worry a lot because I lost my last pregnancy (it was very early on, but it still bothers me) and my mother told me horror stories about how she had two second trimester losses... My husband wants to try to feel for it but I wanted to be sure it was okay to do. Thanks in advance ladies.