Am I wrong to get annoyed at DH?

Question

I was talking to my DH about the possibility of having a c-section due to baby's position. Still possible to turn but it's 50/50.

(Currently 36 weeks, baby is breeched currently/last time was checked)

His response was "what're you talking about, why even plan on it? Just deliver normally"

I got annoyed because he doesn't have to go through birth whatever option it may be..I do! Am I wrong?

Answer

Sounds like he may not fully understand how birth works.

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It is your body and you can absolutely decide yourself how you want to give birth. But I do think that a breech baby doesn't have to mean you should get a c-section. It is a little harder but birth is hard anyway and there aren't that many risks nowadays.. Even my mom delivered 2 breech babies without complications and that was 30 years ago..

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I don't think it's a who's right, whose wrong situation. It seems like he just doesn't understand.

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Your choices are backwards. No, I don't think you're wrong for being pissed, it's your body and health!

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I don't think he understands the birthing proccess. I would be annoyed too lol

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Main thing is that baby gets here safely- which in your case, as of today, seems likely to be a c section. Nothing else matters- certainly not his opinion on what he would prefer you do!

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Your choices are opposite what you asked - but regardless it's YOUR body so you choose. Good luck! Hope baby flips!

Am I wrong to get annoyed at DH?

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