My DH underwent a VR on July 31 '13. Since then we have had 3 BFP, all ending in MC, all unrelated, all with low probability of occuring. Have had every test under the sun performed. Doctor, and 2nd opinion MD, think I've just had a series of unfortunate events.... a string of bad luck.

As I don't have a problem getting pregnant, they don't believe a reproductive endocrinologist will be of assistance. As all three losses have been unrelated, they don't think MFM will be of any assistance. This week is my fertile week and my DH is out of commission, another week of 12 possible weeks in the year down the drain.

The financial impact of all these losses, on top of the cost of DH VR, are adding up. And financially adoption is not an option. Our only hope is to get a BFP and carry to term.

I'm so emotionally drained watching everyone around me announce their pregnancies, have their babies, and many are about to have their second or have had 2 at this point. At what point do you just give up and how do you move accept something you've always dreamed of may not become a reality.