What do you think

So my friend asked my bf in front of me " would you rather be with your current gf or your ex " and my bf doesn't answer . .. Last time I asked my boyfriend " if me and your ex were drowning who would you save " he said he'd " rather die " that was way before the most recent question and after I asked he said he's focusing on me now .. Idk what to do cause they're always talking . He needed help with a speech I offered .. Then he comes n tells me he's done and she helped him when I offered to do the same thing that she did .. O really love him n I know it's hard for him .. We both want to work things out . What's your view ?