Ok ladies this is long sorry but so I'm in a friend's wedding which is July 25th. When it all started back in January there were 5 bridesmaids one of which lives across the country who is the moh. Since the moh could not come to any of events before the wedding I started to organize the shower WITH the other bridesmaids I kept everyone in the loop and asked for their opinions on everything before booking anything... now mind you I did not know these other girls before being asked to be a bridesmaid but have known the bride since I was 14. One of the girls we will call her ko said she would do the cake but when asked about the cake because the bride hates chocolate and I was going to make a cake stand never responded to me... I asked for 2 weeks straight before the shower. Now mind u up to the week of the shower the other girls did NOTHING at all to help out. I had bought or made everything for the shower. And by the end of it all had laid out 670.00 for this event. When the girls were asked how they wanted to slip up the cost I

Of the shower I was told they thought they shouldn't have to pay because they were not the moh.... neither was i! But apparently because I asked and when they were trying to plan the bachlorette party all their ideas were about themselves and not what the bride wanted to do and I told them so nicely I might add apparently I am a mean hateful b*tch that does nothing but cause drama and fights.... then they proceed to say they wish they could back out of the wedding and that they aren't even close to the bride which I never told the bride because I knew it would break her heart... anyway I was nice and polite during the shower even though they both ripped into me days before hand. Fast forward to last week where ko who "helped" KS with the bachlorette party plans says she isn't going to come because it's her bfs birthday... bride gets mad and kicks her out and KS and ko tell on each other about what was said in the argument towards me which I kept my mouth shut. But when KS was confronted about what she had said she tell bride that I shouldn't be telling her about anything that has been said and that I was immature and petty.... ummm. Still over here not saying a word!!! Then ko says she is glad she is out of the wedding because I was mean..... ummm. Am I crazy cuz I don't think I was mean at all. (BTW moh is pregnant can't come to wedding now so now I moh and 16 weeks pregnant )