Please read i dont know what todo

My daughter started school last September and got the 1yr report she is 5 in a few weeks she was just 4 when she started school anyway her report says she is behide a little then the other kids her dad said he is embarrassed that she is behind and said she is thick im utterly gutted that he could say that about his daughter it broke my heart i look at that little face and want to cry as her own father is saying that about his baby i said ill do more reading and writing with her i aint been able todo as im pregnant again and been really ill he expects her to be top of everything ive got problems with spelling and writing so she mite take after me! we got in a big fight yesterday and was being horrible my daughter was there dont know what todo ive tryed taking to him but he is being really pig headed about it all

Did one of your children have problems at the start of school then cach up