Random rant

Katie • 27 years old. Me and my husband have a 4 year old and TTC #2!!
I am 24w2d. Mt fiancé's job fired their 3rd shift person almost 3 weeks ago and he offered to do it for about a couple of weeks. They have now scheduled him a 3rd week. He works 10 pm to 6 am 6 days a week. I get up for work when he gets home about 7 and leave then I work until 430. He is exhusted all the time. His body is put of wack. Someone tried to break into our apartment a week and a half ago. I'm terrified to be alone. They call him I'm early to do the trash and he has to be it before he leaves (rule is you have to take out the trash that was accumulated during your shift.) None of the other people do it and he gets stuck with it and then yelled at about it. I hate seeing him like this. And I want him home because idk how well I can fend off someone if they manage to get in!! They already know when our baby comes he is not working that shift. He wants to be home at night with our daughter. I miss him being there when I go to sleep and when I get up during the night to go pee. It's definitely putting a strain in our relationship because he will sleep until 4 or 430 and nothing gets done around the house. And I try to do things but cant. I'm just emotional and this sucks :(
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Sh

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I totally understand how you feel love my husband just got a new job in Bronx,NY and we leave in Newark,NJ the day before he was suppose to start his job our car broke down and he had to go to his mom house to slee in NY so he could be early for work is so hard to me just go to sleep and wake up alone I wake up multiple times at night cause I don't feel him in bed,I even cry at night I'm 24 weeks pregnant and is hard when the doctor out you in bed rest to do everything is just frustrating.

Sh

Sheiry • Jul 13, 2015
Wow that's really sad I hopefully nothing bad is gonna happen to you or your baby'

Ka

Katie • Jul 12, 2015
omg ik! I am so used to him being there rubbing my belly and it sucks!! :( honestly I cry when he leaves because ik he won't be there. the sad part is his job doesn't seem to care his availability isn't for that time. and they don't seem to care he has a 24 week pregnant fiancé st home and someone tried to break in. we live in a decent area but our building has been taken over by not so great neighbors. I'm scared as heck to be home alone. let alone when babygirl gets here.

Re

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My bf has worked third shift since I met him. He took a second job when I got pregnant so he literally wakes up for work at 10:45 to be to work by 11, then go directly to his second job at 7am and get home at 4. By the time I get home at 5 he's so tired and needs to go to bed by 6. Luckily he doesn't sleep much so for him he can do it but I can't be alone like that. Now that I am going to be in my third trimester he quit his third shift job to make things easier. My advice is to have him tell his boss that this isn't going to work and he needs to go back to days. It can be very nerve wracking to wake up and be alone. 

Ka

Katie • Jul 12, 2015
Oh it horrible :( Especially when I start hearing noises and about go into a panic attack