Hi everyone! So I've already been thinking about my baby shower, we just had a party for my daughter this past weekend and we were joking about saving all the pink decorations for the baby shower but now my bfs mom seems serious and I think it's a great idea as well! But since we're having another girl I don't find it really necessary to have a baby shower since we saved EVERYTHING my daughter used, we only need things such as double stroller, car seat, etc. But I feel that my family or his would still want to have one. Should my boyfriend and I plan it ourselves? Should we see if his family will be throwing us one? Should I ask my family if they'll do one? Should we just all plan it together to all pitch in? Or should we not have one at all?