Dear glow...you could do better

Ashleigh • I`m 32 years old ttc baby number 4! I have 3 boys ages 7, 6 and 3. I`m ready for another, boy or girl!
I love the idea of your app and finding cycle buddies to cheer along! I love getting notifications on a topic I post but why do they stop after 24 hours? Once I find my topic again and I look back I realize friends have been commenting and I have not been notified anymore???!!! Why??? 
And also what is the point in following someone? I have followed fellow mothers who are trying to conceive baby number 4 just like me but I can't ever find them after that? I'm not notified of any of their posts, so really what's the point?
While I'm at it why is there not an option to send a private message to a fellow TTC mother. It would be nice to send baby dust privately to other mothers I've connected with.
The <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android">glow app</a> has the right idea but could really use some tweaking. Or maybe I just dont know what I'm doing??? If you have any tips, feel free to share.