Any one else have awful inlaws?

So I send out an evite for our gender reveal party and my brother in laws (who I have had many many issues with) wife sends me a nasty text at 7 am telling me she will never come to any party I am having and to stop trying to invite them!!! Honestly I cried cause I can't do anything to win with them and I invite them to a party and get yelled at for inviting them I just don't get it.... Anyway its been bothering me all day and I just need to rant a bit. Thanks for reading!