Jealous spouses

I seriously hate these spouses where we are at! They are jealous because I'm a friendly person. I don't see rank. I see it as your a wife let's be friends. My husband is lower enlisted and all my friends are married to very high ups. These spouses are so petty and need to get over it! Why should it matter if I hangout with spouses who are married from enlisted to officers. I'm not hanging out with their husbands and my husband doesn't hangout with their husbands either. So it's not fratinazation then since my husband doesn't hangout with their husbands. We're spouses so we are civilians. I should be allowed to have friends with who ever. The army is just so messed up sometimes