My boyfriend doesn't want me to give him a Blowjib?

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Very strange my boyfriend of 3 years loves going down on me pretty much Everytime we have sex. But lately he doesn't want me to go down on him he tells me he wants sex rather then a bj. I use to give him them all the time for foreplay now he just wants sex. I asked him why and he said he loves me and wants the connection of sex rather then me blowing him. What the hell? Isn't the same thing.

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Maybe he wants to save all of his stamina for your vag so you get more pleasure. 👍

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Maybe he would like 69 so you could both go to town 😝

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Like one of the other girls said, maybe he wants to pleasure you a bit more and that's why he doesn't want a bj. My boyfriends the same way sometimes and he's told me himself that when I give him head, he can't really have sex for very long vs. when I don't give him head. Just ask him again and see what the deal is. There's probably nothing to worry about

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Maybe he considers them impersonal. I know a couple guys who feel that way about "doggie style"... They do like the way it feels, but it is something they relate to more casual sex so they don't like it when being intimate.

I would strongly consider asking him why again... Open communication regarding sex is SUPER awesome. :)

If you like giving them, tell him!

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Maybe he doesn't like how you blow him and he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Speaking from experience...

My boyfriend doesn't want me to give him a Blowjib?

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