Fear of him finishing inside of me?

Question

I've been on Orsythia since April, we've been using condoms but now he doesn't want to use them. I also want to experience sex without a condom. I guess my biggest fear is the pill failing on me. Any advice/suggestions?

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My boyfriend and I have been doing it without a condom for about a year now, although I never let him ejaculate in me. We have always used the pullout method and it has worked for us. I have been on Yaz for about 1 1/2 years though and I have never had an issue. I put my trust in the pill. Now, I'm not saying to do it, because everything may come with consequence. but if you are going to have sex without a condom, ensure that you let him know that you don't want him ejaculating inside you. and understand that if something goes wrong, that you're prepared to deal with pregnancy, or scheduling an abortion for the future. it is a very stressful time that you should tread very lightly on. there is also the option if you just wanted to try it without a condom once, there is Plan B that you can buy for $40.

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If it's really concerning you, just don't do it during your ovulation week without a condom. Otherwise your other method will take care of it.

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I'm on the pill and have been having sex for the past few months now. My boyfriend and I usually use condoms, but found ourselves without one and ready so we went without. This isn't a horror story, no, I'm not pregnant, and for the both of us it felt waaaaay better without a condom. We've done it twice more without condoms since then and but I was always a little stressed afterwards so we decided it's just better to avoid the stress and use condoms, even though I'm diligent about using the pill. Experiment with different types of condoms, there are the thin ones, and other special ones to "make it feel better". In reality, if you take the pill within one hour each day, you're pretty safe, but it's always good to be extra safe, rather than sorry

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I am on the pill and have been since 15, when I began having terribly bad period pains. I've been with my partner 2 years now and we don't use a condom. 
Put trust in the fact that these pills wouldn't be given out if they weren't fool proof. 
Also it's worth bearing in mind that the "pull out" method does not have a high success rate, due to pre ejaculate fluids, etc.

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As long as you are on your pill and you take it daily at around the same time you are at a very low risk of pregnancy. I was apprehensive with my first boyfriend and he never did this but with my current boyfriend we have just been using my birth control pill as our protection and it hasn't failed me yet and we've been doing this 6 months. As long as you both are STD free and you are on the pill you should be good.

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Have him pull out, me and boyfriend have been doing that for a year and half and I'm on birth control!

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So are you saying that you trust condoms more than the pill? Why?

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I'm on BC and I have been with my fiancé for almost 6 years and I still haven't let him do that without a condom. I'm too scared for it right now. I'm waiting until we are officially married just in case anything does happen on accident.

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